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date: Saturday, December 29, 2012 time : 12:09 AM Read about the mystery of the Thailand “White Dragon king”(白龍王), made me extremely miss my grandma-in-law who is like him, came to the earth to help people ward off evil effects both at home and abroad, points to the future and the past and help peoples stay out of troubles. She did all these expecting nothing in return, she treats all alike and equally with an unbounded kindness, love and warm heart. Now she was back to where she came from without suffering for the peoples here and we know she has been watching and blessing us up there. We all miss you badly, grandma! The White Dragon King's creed quotations, which most were exactly what my grandma-in-law has been telling us when she was still with us Which I always bear in mind…… ●要決定前途好不好、人缘好不好，事事好不好，最重要脾氣要好，不要迷信，要尊敬父母比尊敬神明更多。  ●拜神求平安，回家卻和父母頂嘴，要怎樣得到平安？ ●父母才是真神，對父母比神好一點，一切便順順利利。 ●心好有好日。 ●讀書讀得高就好，脾氣高就很不好。 ●神不會騙人，只有人騙神。死人不會罵人，只有人罵死人。 ●無論是甚麼人，壞人、好人、有錢人、窮人，來到這裡都要排隊。 ●拜神不要迷信。 ●好樹生好火，家中夫妻和諧，孩子才會學習去遷就人家。 白龍王: 人生不管是士農工商、各種人等， 只要學習就有進步。 第一、「學習認錯」 人常常不肯認錯，凡事都說是別人的錯， 認為自己才是對的，其實不認錯就是一個錯。 認錯的對象可以是父母、朋友、社會大眾、佛祖， 甚至向兒女或是對我不好的人認錯， 自己不但不會少了什麼，反而顯得你有度量。 學習認錯是美好的，是一個大修行。 第二、「學習柔和」 人的牙齒是硬的，舌頭是軟的，到了人生的最後， 牙齒都掉光了，舌頭卻不會掉，所以要柔軟， 人生才能長久，硬反而吃虧。 心地柔軟了，是修行最大的進步。 一般形容執著的人說，你的心、你的性格很冷、很硬，像鋼鐵一樣。 如果我們像禪門說的調息、調身、調心， 慢慢調伏像野馬、像猴子的這顆心，令它柔軟， 人生才能活得更快樂、更長久。 第三、「學習生忍」 這世間就是忍一口氣，風平浪靜，退一步海闊天空； 忍，萬事都能消除。忍就是會處理、會化解， 用智慧、能力讓大事化小、小事化無。 各位要生活、要生存、要生命，有了忍， 可以認清世間的好壞、善惡、是非，甚至接受它。 第四、「學習溝通」 缺乏溝通，就會產生是非、爭執與誤會。最重要的就是溝通， 相互了解、相互體諒、相互幫助， 大家都是龍兄虎弟，互相爭執、不溝通怎麼能和平呢？ 第五、「學習放下」 人生像一只皮箱，需要用的時候提起， 不用的時就把它放下，應放下的時候，卻不放下， 就像拖著沉重的行李，無法自在。 人生的歲月有限，認錯、尊重、包容才能讓人接受，放下才自在啊！ 第六、「學習感動」 我們看到人家得好處，要歡喜； 看到好人好事，要能感動。 感動是一個愛心、菩薩心、菩提心， 在我幾十年的歲月裡，有許多事情、語言感動了我， 所以我也很努力的想辦法讓別人感動。 第七、「學習生存」 為了生存，我要維護身體健康， 身體健康不但對自己有利，也讓朋友、家人放心， 所以也是孝親的行為。
I'm a woman with strong attitude, short temper in the past before I married into hus's family but now I
would dare to say that the above highlighted, I achieved a good grade for all lol,
except the point no. 1 which I’m still improving; sometime I find it a little
difficult to put the face down to say sorry, really depend on the situation
also. And for point 4; which I failed totally in communication. Well I’m considered a
great person with positive thinking, always trying to see thing from different
sides and be understanding,even gossip also got a limit, motto 做人要有口德 and 不要致人于死地. Oh but maybe something bad that
I shouldn't do is that I do close door gossip about one or two the usual f*ck up one in person, with
my very close one once in a blue moon, but not that we like to bitch about them
but is because that person really got problems else no one will came to me to
bitch about that person also. Don’t tell me anyone of you never ever bitch about anyone? Yes?!
Then you must be telling lie or living in your own world. Lol~ I’m often very polite with my words even when come to a f*ck up person. Just don't come and provoke me with your sensitivity or jealousy or whatever, I can be fearless and get into a very horrible stage if you drag, offend or talking untrue thing about me or my family, and I will definitely show the proof of the bad you did, so don't force me which seriously you will get the hell out of me.
Peace mind!! and 脾氣要好好好 Labels: My views, Share, She says |
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