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date: Monday, August 06, 2007
time : 10:35 PM
The noble ones in my LifeThis may come out to be a very long post. There are words which I really can't express out to them face to face and I will like my children to know how important they are to me.My Heart of Gold grandmother-in-law (Your great-grandmother)
She is a very special and beautiful woman I have known. A heart, that's made from the finest purest gold. Being thoughtful to others, it sees sincerely as duty. She is a noble woman that I am so proud.
She is one that is being sent down from Heaven to save people. No matter what, she tried her very best to save people around her without asking for any return. She spends all her money to help people. Even if she is down with illness, she still tried her best to save and praying for a peaceful world. She suffered so much just to help others.
My children, you must always bear in mind that your life is owned by her. No her, you won't be exist in the earth. No her, I won't have such a healthy children for me to love and dote on. You may not understand what I mean and you don't need to know also. Just bless her, even when one day she needs to leave the land of living.
I will like to thank her... Really,
Thank you for being a special person that you are. Thank you for the love and care that you have shown. And thank you for the endless love that has stretched so far. The kindness that you bring. And the support while I am breastfeeding my little girl, Amabel. You are one that feels so heart pain for me when you see me trying to preserve in breastfeeding and give the best to my girl. You said I did it very well. She still can’t believe for such a wayward and headstrong girl could preserve in breastfeeding for so long for her child. You are one that encourage me and let me know that what I had done (breastfeeding) this almost 1 year for Amabel is worth it and enough. Is time for me to take a rest and boost up my health. You are one that made me feel better to the decision to stop breastfeeding my girl soon. Really... I love you! Words which I don't dare to tell you but hope that you can feel it.
My grandmother (Your maternal great grandmother)
She is the one who taking care of me, feeding me and brings me to school everyday when I am still a small kid. She passed ago last year Feb 2006 while you are still in Mommy’s womb. And I am so sorry to Amabel for crying so sadly at home (as it is no good for the foetus). I were not allowed to go to the hospital to see her before she left because your maternal grandfather asked me not to, I feel so sad. I don’t even get to see her face one last time in the funeral because I am not allowed to, that is my regret. I really feel so sorry to grandmother for not respecting her and hold her hand and give her a hug once last time before she left us. Sorry… grandmother. I Love you. God bless you. One day we will get to see each other again.
My grandfather –in-law (Your great-grandfather)
He passed ago last year 2006 too while you are still in Mommy’s womb. And I am so sorry to Amabel for crying again. He love singing and I love to hear him sing those Hokkien songs. And his smile is so contagious that I like it so much. Even though you already left us, but your soul seem to be still with us, watching us, blessing us and your wonderful voice that we will never forget.
My grandfather (Your maternal great grandfather)
He has passed away very very long ago. He is one handsome guy when he is young and even old. I am so sorry to him for not respecting him when he is still around. Without you, grandmother also becomes so lonely. Grandfather… you are always in my heart. I Love you. God bless you. One day we will reunite again.
My Mother-in-law (Your grandmother)
A very understanding mother-in-law of mine. She suffered a lot as a daughter-in-law when she is young; she was not well treated by her mother-in-law. That's why she always trying to give in to her daughter-in-law and treating us very good. I still can't forget when I were lying on the bed after delivered Amabel, what she said to me once she entered the room in a wheelchair. 依玲, 心苦妳了. To me, she is a very strong woman. She overcome the fierce and continues fighting against the cancer. I know she has been trying to hide her sadness and pain. I don't wish to see her cry again. Whenever, I see her cried in pain, made my heart aching. I love to see her smile.
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Thank you for endure my wayward and willful character. I will try my very best to be a good and filial daughter-in-law. You must preserve and I am sure one day you will totally recover. We are all here to support you and bless you. Love you too.
My Father-in-law (Your grandfather)
A man that can cook a lot of very delicious foods that I love. He is the one who cooked those tonics when I am pregnant and confinement dishes for me during my confinement. He is one good father, in-law and husband that I respect. He treated me very good and I love to see him laugh showing his bogay (toothless) smile, looks damn cute. He and grandmother loves and dotes you, you must filial to them.
My Mother (Your maternal grandmother)
She is a noble mother. All her life is being spent in working; for her children. She is working so hard just to earn and save a lot of money for her children and next generation. She just wants us to grow up without the worry of no food or shelter to live in. Now she has the wealth and can retire but she wants to continue earning more for her grandchildren and us. She is one who gives a lending hand when we face financial problem. We grow up in golden spoon, so both, your Yiyi and me adapted in this kind of willful character. She keeps enduring us and yet we didn’t show much respect to her at all. I feel so sinful. She loves and dotes you so much, you must filial to her ok.
Thank you mum for all that you have done for us. I Love You Forever! Truly!
My Father (Your maternal grandfather)
He started from a few dollars when he met your maternal grandmother to now with so much wealth. He went through so much hardship just to let his children live without suffering. We are fortune enough to have him. Pa… you love and dote Amabel and us so much, me too. Love You Forever. I appreciated what you have done for us. Thank You!
I feel so blissful. Really!
Sorry for any spelling mistakes or incorrect grammar.
Labels: Grandfather, Grandmother, Great-grandfather, Great-grandmother, Maternal grandfather, Maternal grandmother, Maternal great-grandfather, Maternal great-grandmother
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