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 .jpg)  Our Lil Princess: Amabel Loh Birthday: 21 August 2006 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 38weeks 3days Weight at Birth: 3.005kg Length at Birth: 47cm Breastfeed: 14 months  Our 2nd Lil Princess: Aisleyne Loh Birthday: 15 August 2008 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 39weeks 2days Weight at Birth: 3.010kg Length at Birth: 48cm Breastfeed: 3 years+  |
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title: :(
date: Thursday, September 17, 2009 time : 1:05 PM :( People may think that I'll be happy being a slim person. My parent keeps nagging that I should eat more but I have tried (eh...not because I eat just to please them, I'm really hungry ok) and it didn’t work. I can eat non-stop throughout the day as long as there is something for me to eat, I can eat it up. I'm like feeling ravenous at all time except those few day where I suffered gastric flu and at the recovering stage; no appetite but is very hungry!... miserable My mind is often the food, tibits, ice-cream. Last time (before I delivered my #2), I don't eat ice-cream and junk food cause I know that it's so unhealthy but now I just couldn't control the temptation lah. Shall stop eating those, hope I can. Hubby got back a free digital weighing scale from CK Tang; it can calculate whether our body contains lot of fat by inputting our gender, height and age. We're happily playing around with it, but I don't dare to stand on it cause I know mine must be fall under underweight category. If my Dad saw it will surely be nagging and nagging again. So once my Dad went to the kitchen, asking my sis to make sure he won't be coming out soon. Then i weigh myself... True enough, mine fall under the extreme underweight range. Just a few days ago, went to stock up some office wear (skirt and pant). So sad... I tried more than 5 pieces of pant, it's the smallest size but none I can fit in. Very loose!! The feeling is no better than those who is overweight. Hope I can put on some weight...but maintain the face shape pls Going to the bazzar to buy Durian mooncake now, very tempted lah. yum yum... Labels: Feeling ADVERTISEMENTS
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date: Friday, May 22, 2009 time : 3:44 PM I’m kanna sick of the world The way human behave, the way human talk, the way human think Someone said something sarcastic that day… "小孩子， 喜欢给别人抱来抱去 比较好。 不要像 Amabel这样笨笨的。 这样是笨， 不是什么。 你看她真的是笨。” argh! Should I say the person bias or talk never use thru brain? Anyway this is not the first time I’m sad that these words came out from that person. Not because, I respect the person and the funeral and then remembering the lesson taught by grandma-in-law (做人要有修养，本性要好), I will turn my face. Just because she always don’t like to let people carry then you judged her as stupid??!!? Like that that person can really offend a lot of parents out there. WTF! Anyway Amabel cheer up my day by saying something silly yet funny Hahaha! I couldn’t stop laughing whenever I think of it. I were squeezing a pimple on hus’s arm, and the blood stained the tissue paper. As Amabel always surprise me by saying words that we never taught or say to her. I hoping she will surprise me again by saying, “BLOOD” So I decided to ask her Me: "Amabel! What is this?" (pointing at the blood stains) Amabel: "Oh….. CHILLI!" We burst out laughing immediately. There is once after she's done with the big business on her diaper. She went up to her Dad Amabel: "Daddy!" Daddy: Yes! Amabel: "I made cake for you!" (Show her butt to her Dad) *LOL* Labels: Feeling, Funny, My views, Talking 
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date: Tuesday, May 19, 2009 time : 4:06 AM We'll never forget! Soon we will be moving out of this lovely nest of ours *sad* Not bear to leave, for those memorial 5 years we had here from married till the birth of two lovely kids.      Went for the 1st appointment before the demise of my grandma-in-law.2nd appointment is scheduled in early July 09 and by August 09, we will be moving into my parent's place temporary while hunting for larger shelter of our own. We'll never forget this wonderful place we use to live. Labels: Feeling
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date: Monday, April 14, 2008 time : 6:25 PM GIRL POWER!! I'm A blog reader, i named her as Anon, added me in msn. I am happy to give her my advice. She asked me this without knowing the gender of my coming baby. "Babe, are you heartbreaking when you are expecting with your girl?” I were real shock that the first thing she ask me is this. I asked her: “What had happened to you?” “Do you know I really despise you when you ask me this kind of question.” We had a long chat cause I want to correct her thinking. This is what happened. This anon is expecting her second child. Like me, her first child is a girl. Her gynae told her that her coming one, most likely would be a girl. She is going for detailed scan soon but had pressures from many people already. When they know that her first one is a girl, they (including relatives and in law) will give 'encouraging but yet mean remarks' like “aiyo nevermind try again”. Now that she is expecting another one, even her mother-in-law doesn't spare her and starts to teach her girl to say 'didi'...... *faint* In summary, these is what I think and told her and want everyone who is reading this blog to know. I suppose most of the sadness and disappointment doesn't really come from the mother, but rather others' reaction towards knowing that it’s a baby girl. When she mentioned heartbreaking of having girl, I think is other peoples like parent, in law, relatives or friends that are heart breaking and not the parent of the child. Many people are actually affected by others reaction, hence affecting their own emotions. I am a very emotional person but I am glad that for me isn't that affected by the gender. I came to realise it when I held my baby gal in my arms for the first time and I knew I wouldn't trade anything for her. The first time when she smiles at me, plays with me and even makes me angry... I am blessed that she is safe and healthy. I encountered some remark about the gender just recently. Can’t really remember what my XXX said cause it doesn’t really affected me much though a bit piss off when I overheard what she told my girl. It is something that telling my girl the baby inside is a ‘didi’. As if she is the one who hope and want it to be a boy. And that time I didn't even know the gender of the 2nd one. I was thinking, "why? why said is a didi? what's wrong if it's a girl? You were born as a girl also right! You mean you don't like yourself?" You also wouldn't want your daughter to face this kind of treatment and pressure from her in law or relative right? I was close to mouthing the words out. Anyway, I do try to think she meant no harm or slip out of mind said "didi" cause she has been very doting on my girl. Guess it's just a very traditional kind of thinking that older folks have. And I don't know why I got abit angry when someone guess that I'm expecting a boy. My buddy just told me something that maybe is the baby in my womb protest and it's the baby not happy, just imagine u are gal and someone keep saying u are boy. How the baby will feel? So mommy will angry for the baby. Lol~ Anyway I don't care about what others say, I got over it quite fast. But now I came to realise it can be serious, when this Anon who is so concern about other remarks and make me know that actually such a remarks can be serious mental discourage for some mothers. Or maybe alot which I don't know. So in future I need to protest on those people that bias on baby gender. Just cannot take it that why nowadays still got such mind exists. So far no one dares to say crude remarks about the baby gender directly to me as I think most knows I can be nasty and shoot him or her down. Just wish to correct their thinking; so give me a chance and I'll make sure the person turn into ashes with my reactions and words! If I ever hear anyone give such a remarks, I will just tell them off and that I have gain my wish of having 2 princess, no more baby, 2 is enough. "Afterall, I am the one taking care of them not you. " Really don’t understand why in this century, people are still harping on having boy. Isn't the health of your little ones more important than anything else. I'm surprised that even mommies, cannot sympathies other mommies and passing this crude remarks. I knew afew cases from this Anon. She told me her sister also do have some remarks from others when she is expecting her baby girl and boy. When first she expected with her girl, peoples tend to said: "Huh! girl ah? Nevermind try again for a boy" but when she expecting a boy for her second pregnancy, peoples will say: "Oh very good! You must be very happy. Can close shop liao lor". Her sister was thinking those peoples mean that she is not happy when she is expecting a girl? Both are her precious. She love both no matter what gender they are. I were thinking what the *F* those peoples are to do such comments and remarks! I wouldn’t allow my girls to be subjected to any discrimination. They are my precious, if anyone think they are not good enough, they can just stay away from us. We don’t need them. I work in hospital and I saw those babies fighting for their lives in ICU. I think people who place importance in gender are so superficial. I'm a girl too and I don’t think I'm worse off than guys. I still work to earn to support my girl and family. My husband is not the only breadwinnner!! We should be happy to be able to conceive and have normal babies. We should compare ourselves to those who can't even conceive and share our joy of having children or those whose babies are abnormal, and then we will appreciate the healthy babies we have. So there is nothing to be disgraced about having too many baby girls… Boy or girl, let the fate decides! I will like to share this inspirational, which I saw a few years back which I can still remember. I pull it out and wrote here to share. The content is something like this. A parent went to a dinner and this SUPER GORGEOUS looking mom was ogling at their boy, she went absolutely crazy, was smothering him with hugs and kisses. She told the mother of the boy in the happiest manner that she had always wanted a boy cause her parent-in-law hope she can has a boy because she has 5 girls. But she looked real gorgeous, so slim and so tai tai-ish that the mother of the boy didn't think that it was bad to have 5 girls. The mother of the boy was so attracted by her presence appearance and was thinking to herself 'How I wish I can look so good in 10 years time’. So we should all embrace motherhood and strive to be beautiful and hot mommies, be it 2 or 5 gals. People do look up to you for that. When we treat ourselves right, raise our kids well, look good and feel good, people will naturally look up to us and not remember how many girls you have. Another... How you will feel if a woman in her late 40's woman approach and ask you: " How does it feel to have a baby inside you? Telling you that she has never pregnant before." You ask yourself and you will feel blessed. I have my princess, Amabel, she is so cute and pretty, I love having her around that I can do so many girls things with them. I like to doll her up which is something you can't do with boys. That is why I always wish to have another girl to accompany her too, just like they accompany me. And I am proud to say that I am very happy that I expected another baby girl. If we have 3rd kid, I'll still be very happy if it’s a girl... I do wish to have boys too, for the sake of having him accompany my husband. But still it is fate so girls or boys, as long as they are healthy, it doesn’t matter!! Both are human, need parents' love and care. If both given the right environment, they can love us back more than we love them. I just focus on giving my girl all the love I have, we will surely benefit. And weren’t this more important to a parent. Sigh, my heart goes out to those with biases in laws, relative, parents, and friends. I love my girl so much; she’s the best and cutest little girl that I wouldn't exchange her for anything in the world!! I told myself before, if one day my relationship with my husband doesn’t work anymore. No matter what, I will fight for her custody and shower her with all my love throughout my entire life. I always keep my chin up and be proud of motherhood. Bless those that have girls…the more the merrier. P/S: Anon... hope you don't mind I blog about the conversation between us. Labels: Baby Gender, Feeling, Pregnancy, Words for you
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title: I'm Tired
date: Friday, December 07, 2007 time : 12:31 AM Now is midnight 12.31. Amabel is still tossing about on the bed. I'm tired. Really tired. I'm tired of thinking tired of listening those sarcastic remarks tired of arguing tired of seeing the irritating faces tired of trying tired of maintaining tired of loving tired of whatever bel, am not referring to you for any of the above . . she just fell alseep. So tired, am gonna sleep too. Labels: Feeling |
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