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title: 杨门女将
date: Tuesday, November 04, 2014
time : 5:35 PM

3rd November 14,

went up to in-law' house again after work as MIL condition was deteriorating,
wasn't good.
She has been in unconscious state and been nurse at home due to the short prognosis, 
cause nothing else the doctor can help her except to give her medicine to relief her pain

 Many times, we were told by the doctor that she won't be able to survive for a given period 
(not months but weeks/days),
but each time she surprised the doctors.
It have been for more than 9 months now since she's unconscious.

from breast cancer 9 years back to brain cancer...
is all her willpower and determination to live and miracle again from God. 
sis-in-law and helpers really take great care of her round the clock throughout this 9yrs of her battle with cancer

God is good  to us and have been showing mercy to mum 
but yet seeing mum suffering is really aching for all of us too who love her so much.
Everyone knew where her strong determination from... her family, her grandchildren, her siblings. 

 her mind is keep going strong for everyone, 
but....
her body can't!

Now we have accept the fact that she's gonna leave us soon
her milk intake is getting lesser and lesser, 
diaper change is also became once a day now since few days back, 
no more poo for days already despite the use of enema, 
the drawn out of fluid is also black (blood) for milk feed.
her fingers, nails and palms all turn blue and pale 
her organs may have failed

Now, we wishes she will be able to wait and fulfill her last wishes,
....her youngest daughter marriage on this Thursday
yes, they brought forward it

so please hang on there....


what we can do now is to spend more time with her







29 June14, that's the last pic Aisleyne took with 奶奶, with her eyes opened slightly.


Doze off...

and we trying to stay overnight as often as we could, morning waking up...

I can't hold my tears everytime I update my parent over the phone about my MIL condition, that's the time where nobody will get to see me cry.

I may looks strong...but I weren't when I'm alone.

FIL has been crying every single day
only her grandchildren can make my FIL smiles more

God please give her strength to hold on this time again




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