Reading lot of 运程，actually this year not a very good year in health and financial for me who born the the year of chicken.
Even what friend sent to me also written so




But I really thanks god that they sent down a guarding angel to help me.

Knowing that I have been doing way too much and overloaded with endless housechores to do that I had neglected my health, the sleeping quantity and quality. Time to take care my health, before it is way too late. We can never buy back a pink health.

Seriously, a great mother is one who know how to take care of their own health before they can take really good care of their kids.

Not one who snack on junk food on the left and on the right feeding the kids with junk foods.

Not one who sleeping in wee hours, and making the kids need to follow you sleeping at wee hours too.

This is how I judge a great mother now, and not how busy they are daily. Busy is easily said, but who know what they really busy at? no one knows and how trusty is their words! Unless you really need to do all the cooking, all the washing, all the cleaning and housechores else I don't see how busy a person can be.

I went through all these so I knew what can only kept a mother busy. So I really salute those mother who need to work and need to be back home to cook, do housechores and, teach the kids schoolwork, take care the kids.

But I hope those mother can think for themselves, their own health before it is too late. So don't overwork, housechores can never end; whatever can leave, leave it to the next day. Make sure getting quality and quantity sleep is more important than anything else. Eat well too!!

Today is the 2nd day my new maid is with us; not much stress for me now yet... I don't need to fork out few thousand bucks to get a fresh maid, I don't need to worry about the communication, I don't need to stressfully training the maid cause the maid came really good experiences. Can see that she loves children and quite attentive. Attitude, appearance everything so far are very good. She knows that I need a lot of rest and sleep. Kept asking me to sit down to rest or go nap when I am helping her to spring clean the area after teaching her how to. Automatic system also quite good. 👍 Up

Hope she can keep it up!

And I am pretty surprise that she really know how to handle the food when I testing her yesterday when I teaching her how to cook our healthy meal... She knows not to overcook the food else the best nutrient will be gone, so which veggies should go in first and like what type of ingredient to use, how big the fire should. What food/ingredient need to soak and how to wash so it is clean.

Thanks god!!! Cause not many of them who cook know this logic! Lol~

It's still early to judge a person and I always know there wasn't a perfect person, so I won't expect too much from my new maid also.

But having a experience maid is another worries for me, it is different from my past experience with getting my 3 fresh ex-maid. So I can't control them that much like as if they are first time in Singapore like a fresh maid.
I need to figure out what is the proper way to handle them, whether to give them off day?! See this is really a headache and stress. That's why I hate engaging maid and have maid at home! But I really need extra help so I can take care my own health and planning to use the extra time I have to attend more healthy nutrition cooking lesson. So I can teach my maid to cook for us during the weekdays, at least we can all have early dinner unlike now after I cooked, we are having dinner at pretty late, as late as 7.30pm. Not good for digestive system also in long term!

Lastly, gonna said I am extremely thankful to my parent who have been with me during this period of hard time, and also help me to get this experienced maid to help out now.

Love them whole hearted!

Thanks also to my mom's boss willing to let go of her trusty maid to us!

Hopefully this maid won't give me much headache and stress over the time!

Praying hard! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

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