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 .jpg)  Our Lil Princess: Amabel Loh Birthday: 21 August 2006 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 38weeks 3days Weight at Birth: 3.005kg Length at Birth: 47cm Breastfeed: 14 months  Our 2nd Lil Princess: Aisleyne Loh Birthday: 15 August 2008 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 39weeks 2days Weight at Birth: 3.010kg Length at Birth: 48cm Breastfeed: 3 years+  |
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title: Maid vs Student Care
date: Thursday, December 27, 2012 time : 11:21 AM
Back blogging after busy days, X'mas mood with parties and gatherings and of course with the endless housechores.
So the world did not end on 21 Dec, and the doomsday
predictions were wrong again.
The world continues....
Thanks god for everything though life wasn't that great recently. Started feeling stress once again, to have maid again or not to have?!Am actually really not intend to have maid again cause I enjoy doing everything by myself despite being really tired all days with the lack of sleep, seems like age a lot too cause of the haggard looks, well can't be asking for more since I'm into my 30s. But for the good of Amabel who is going Primary 1 in another few days, am thinking twice. We checked a few before and after school care near our house, is really a DISAPPOINTMENT. I didn't know the environment in those school care can be really that bad, small, super noisy and packed with students, how to concentrate study and rest in that environment. Worst is when I asked about their meals, they can't even answer me what meal plans they have for the student, which I concern most. What hus concerned really made me think that having maid to help is a better solution. His said;- 1) in student care, she has to wake up early to the student care and there isn't a time scheduled for her to nap/sleep and noon time she will be in school. Hence, not getting enough sleep, she may not be able to concentrate well in class. 3) Amabel can get to eat home meals according to my meal plans rather than the queries I have on what the student care can provide. 4) We don't have to keep taking leaves when the kids get sick, which affected our work performance. But........ I really hate the stress I may get from the maid again. Though I not having that much of problems from my past maids like most of you encountered, but most of the time when they can't meet my standards, it really affected my mood!! I hate also that I always have to check and supervise on the maid even when I'm at work, it did affect my work too. I even have to worry whether they eat or eat enough or not especially when they are picky on food. Worries about their hygiene and will still worries about whether kids are in good hands when I'm not home (though I do have CCTV at home which I can view in my iphone). Am still weighing between student care vs maid. Argh.... I really hate myself for thinking too much and unable to decide even till now. For the time being, Amabel will have to follow her dad to work in the morning when the school starts and hus will send her to school. Got to settle this soon! Extremely stress!!! Ok brushing that off, happy note and pics to share here Meetup with Sz, Leann and the kiddos at Vivo after my gals' routine dental checkup, really enjoys every meetup especially when the kids are really enjoying, but I hate it that I really got a hard to handle, missy wilful princess, Aisleyne that often spoil my moods. Am really thankful that even my buddies trying their best to help to discipline her. Seriously, I hope everyone around me to be harsh to her else she really think that with others around, I will at least give in to her abit. Even buddies commented that she is really powerful that I think they really surrender! Beautiful Christmas tree           Blessed Christmas!! Labels: Baby Friends, BB Gathering, Christmas, Our Activities |
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