ATTITUDE MAID

6.48pm in the cab now

My heart feels heavy, the feeling is miserable.
Am I right not to go ahead to tell the lady what I wish to tell her... about what I saw her maid behave toward her daughter?

I were in the Cold Storage earlier on...alone, buying veggies and meat for my girls' meals.
When I were at the cashier counter waiting to make payment. I saw a maid (i think is Filipino) carrying a baby girl in a carrier, standing near another counter and was with a elder girl sitting in the stroller but was crying terribly for mommy.

Shouldn't the maid be pacifying her, assuring her that mommy will be coming back soon? That's what I expect a maid to do. But nope... to my disappointment, she just stand there ignoring her, giving her bad attitude, when she talk to the little girl, her tone was really bad and frustrating. I could obviously see from her face that, she is extremely frustrated, impatience.

First thing came to my mind, "idiot maid! I wanna tell her employer what I saw and feel about her maid" This maid totally FAILED, to be a maid taking care kid.

I kept looking at them, waiting for the mommy to appear (so I can get her) rather than looking at the cashier scanning my items. When I am done, the mommy still not yet coming. Then I really standing there waiting for the mommy to appear.

Finally she came, she was a pretty and trendy mommy. I still observing the maid and her attitude toward the girl who is still crying seem to change, become nice and SMILEY.
After sometime they went to counter to make payment. So I wait till it was done.

I tried finding chance to go toward the mommy (maid employer) ONCE she is some distance away from the maid as I feel it wasn't really good to said it when the maid is present lah.

But I don't really have the chance, then I think should I just give up. Thinking the pro and con about informing the mommy (maid employer). Will the employer think that it is very normal, nothing wrong, I'm just KPO or sensitive or crazy.

I worried that I may get negative response, so I decided to forget it and go home, thinking that I still got a frozen bag full of frozen and fresh fish and meat, I had to rush home to cut it and freeze it if not it won't be fresh anymore.

Hai... Am I right not to tell the mommy about her maid bad attitude toward her girl? Some people may think, aiyah nothing to hoolah about lah since the maid never beat or abuse the kid mah. But to me, maid attitude toward the kid is a concern too.

So mommies here who reading this. Can share what you think? I would love to know.
Thanks!

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