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date: Monday, April 27, 2009 time : 1:02 AM Out with MIL, hubby and Amabel for lunch at Cz'Zar in GWC. Thumb up for the great service, the crew service are good, the manager customer service was superb, she's mingling around with all the customers. Amabel's super naughty again. Once sat in the baby chair, started throwing the things around her for no reasons. Buay tahan her... *angry* I told hubby, I'll bring her out to discipline her. She cried, refused to follow me. Still I carried her out. She looked at me, knowing that I'm angry. She kept crying... again i told her in a very firm tone "Stop crying and keep quiet!" She didn't and continuing crying. "Stop crying and keep quiet now, if not I bring you home straight away!" I repeated this a few times while I never stop my steps. She knows she can never win her mom. So she stopped after awhile. I told her "You must be a good girl, sit in the baby chair quietly and behave well. Cannot throw the thing around. That's table manner please." I kept repeating that and make sure she understand. She nodded her head. Then I praise her for stop crying and agreed to behave well. We even 打勾勾 (pinky swear) that she promised me to behave well. So cute! I love her soooo much. When we back to the dine, she's so well behave and self feeding. She only dare to smile back when I smile at her. look so ke lian. haha. We got to keep discipline her this way, be firm to her what behaviour is acceptable and unacceptable. I believe slowly she will change with the continue help from the behaviour educator. Next appointment will be on 14 May. Another work break for me too. Here a video of her self feeding. Oh! think I didn't yet to blog about Amabel have goes diaper-less at home since 3 months ago (when she's 2years 5 months). We didn't train her purposely. Herself requested not to wear it. The first time there is an accident. and of course one or two times accident(s) follow on, where we too slow bringing her to toilet when she told her she wants shhhh... shhh.... Then I requested her childcare to let her go without diaper, since at home she do it very well without it. but end up, she always too concentrate playing with friends and couldn't control but pee on the pant or teacher couldn't make it in time to bring her to toilet since there's a bit walking distance. So accidents happened Teacher suggested not to make it worst since she just learn to goes diaper-less at home and to continue to let her wear diaper in school but let her wear pull up diaper instead. When she's able to control her bladder better then they will let her wear just undergarment. The first time I brought her to sit on the toilet bowl, I were so happy to see she really pee and shit. I alway praise her for telling us her urge and pee/shit in the toilet. So no point rushing them. Once they are ready, they will tell you. Now I'm waiting she can go diaper-less when sleeping. *smile* Labels: Amabel's behaviour, potty training 2 Comments:
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very good in how to discipline Big A rather than scolding her.. must learn from u :)
^_^ Really got to discipline our kids since baby, if not will be like my #1, difficult to handle