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date: Sunday, August 03, 2008 time : 2:51 PM So long never blog, taken some pics for the past few weeks, no time to upload it. Now also don't know what to write about it. Taken in 30 June 08, my ex-maid is still around but I were troubling over maid issues. 4 July 08. I stopped letting my ex-maid handle my girl when I'm back from work. We will lock in the room and Amabel is playing on her bed before sleeping. Those few days am arranging with agency on the most early date which we can send her back. She's still thinking she's going back indonesian for holiday and will be able to come back to continue work for us. She think I will keep a bomb with me? Asking for expensive SQ air flight, asking for longer home leave, asking for off days, asking for so many things. Giving her so much good things, yet she think we are not good enough. Not good, then please balat gabong. I discovered something; she said she wants to give us a surprise, when the day she is going back to indonesian - in her letter to her friend written in Dec 2007. 6 June 08, Amabel swimming at Tanjong Rhu's condo. Didn't bring her swimsuit and didn't have extra clothes so borrowing Ah Ping's clothes to swim. Haha After a swim, playing with the fish at her great-grandma's house Me me me me. 12 July 08, a busy day. We sending the ex-maid to the agency earlier than she is aware. She refused, angry and buay song that we put her to stay in the agencyfor a day before flying off. She complaining that she wont be able to shower over there and will be torture by the agency staff to do work.So much complaint! But she still don't know I am not going to continue her until we reach the agency, then she start suspecting. I asked the agency staff to check her luggang for me instead, nothing found but she may already pass all the valuable stuff to her sis-in-law who is working in Singapore. Someone told us that she met her sis-in-law downstair when we are not around. Damn! But so far, nothing valuable I found gone missing. Before we go off, she craddle Amabel who is sleeping in the pram. She refused to let us go and said want to have a talk with us. Hubby carried Amabel away from her, and then we just go off. We headed to Jeario's full month at Jurong East's Park Oasis Condo. When Amabel woke up from her sleep. she never ask for the maid. Haha! That day, I'm so thrilled that I finally sent off my maid. Amabel happily playing there. She met a new friend there and keep pstering him to dance with her. Vain girl! The next day she messaged us, why we give her a surprise (sending her back and don't want her anymore) Me again Days without the help from maid. Amabel still never ask cry for the maid at all, like she never exist in her life before. Great! 19 July 08, at Tanjong Rhu's condo celebrating Amabel cousin 1st birthday Then have a swim there too She's still keep messaging me and asking about Amabel. She said she miss Amabel alot, but I didn't reply her message. Till today, I am still waiting what surprise she is going to give. haa.. Got to stop here. Need to prepare to cook for my girl. Will write about my pregnancy soon. Already 1.5cm dilated and baby had engaged, I may deliver anytime. Back soon! Labels: Celebration/party, My Gallery, playtime, Swim 6 Comments:
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i am surprise why you say "its great" that Amabel did not ask for your ex-maid when she woke up.
wouldn't you want your daughter to have at least some kind of feeling for someone that's taken care of her after all those times?
ok- i agree your maid is not very good sometimes...but afterall, she did take care of your daughter at the times when you most needed her. does that not mean anything to you at all?
now she's gone. you should let your daughter know the truth that the maid is gone, and simply assure her you will be there for her or even if there's another maid coming. just pretending the maid did not exist in my opinion isn't right.
how did you know that your daughter did not want to 'save' the lovely memories of your ex-maid in her head? people come and go in our lives, but just pretending they did not exist just isn't right. we are all human with compassion...surely you must agree with this.
i am not against you or anything..just thought this may be something you wish to think about that's all. last of all, don't worry too much...i really think you are a great mum !
Thanks for the comment
it's good that u sent her off..
she's really scary lah,
wanna give u 'surprise'.
it's good that amabel nv ask for her..
when my maid who was taking care of my son went off, he also nv ask for her..
but occasionally,
he'll ask where's the maid.
OMG...
u must tk cr k??
Amabel is looking more n more like you, especially the pics of her sitting on the sofa! So long never see u & her liao..
yeah, amabel is starting to resemble you! she seems so ready to be a big sista. lol.
btw, is that klemence (sorry, don't know how to spell his name)standing beside amabel in one of the pics? he looks super handsome can! haha..
maggie,
yah I were so shocked to know the content of that letter. "Surprise" see how evil she is, how well we treat her, she doesn't appreciate at all. Sometimes I really think, how they expect us to treat them. Just simply becos we need them to take care of our child then they can demand and do anything? Really don't know what they are thinking. =)
You take care too. Meet up soon
Leann and sz,
Look like me meh? hee!
We will meet up soon k
sz, yes that's Klemens. Hee!