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 .jpg)  Our Lil Princess: Amabel Loh Birthday: 21 August 2006 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 38weeks 3days Weight at Birth: 3.005kg Length at Birth: 47cm Breastfeed: 14 months  Our 2nd Lil Princess: Aisleyne Loh Birthday: 15 August 2008 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 39weeks 2days Weight at Birth: 3.010kg Length at Birth: 48cm Breastfeed: 3 years+  |
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date: Monday, January 28, 2008 time : 1:16 PM Does he help you out? Does he help you around the house and taking care baby? I am not sure if I am being overly emotional but I really freaked out that he is not helping much... only after I yelled at him like a crazy woman then he start helping a bit... I felt like he should know I am tired and can’t do everything by myself sometime. I work all day and I told him this was hard on me and he doesn’t get it because I sit all day in an office and his job is more physically demanding. All guys like this? I heard a lot of this story. Never expect much from them when come to taking care of kid and housework. They are just idiot in all these. They thought these is not their job, their job is only to earn money. And these beat everything a women do (from bearing a baby, delivering pain, taking care of kid etc). Is these mean that all women can stop working and be a SAHM mommy waiting for them to give house allowance? I almost cried a few times, just because I couldn’t get his butt moving. He always said he is helping me take care of my girl during his off days but now I know his take care mean what. Take care = Playing with her only. The definition is totally wrong. Playing with her I can basically ask someone to bring her down to the playground. Guy please gets it correctly what is mean by taking care a kid. Take care = Washing her butt when necessarily, but not to yell for the maid to wash. Offer to feed her meal / milk voluntarily Not leaving kid running around the house unattended As long as he can do the above, I am happy enough. Were these that difficult? He is really a good guy but just couldn’t help much. Sometime really hate GUY. Poor Amabel always get scolded by me (ya I angry till I actually yell at her) just because she running around doing dangerous acts or playing with the dirty dustbin. I know is not her fault but I just couldn’t control, hoping scolding her will make her knows that what she does is wrong. Actually I am venting my rage on her because nobody else helping me when maid is helping in other stuff. I am wrong! Sorry Amabel. I do love her a lot. I kiss her evertime when she is asleep and I kiss her many times when I carry her.  I have learn to be independent and a strong mommy. I am still learning to do everything by my own. Actually I am very proud of myself already. Labels: My Gallery, My views 3 Comments:
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Hi E-Ling, still remember me? I am Smiley.. =) I came across an article which might help you. Guys are guys, they are different from women. You are not alone, many women think they do more than their husbands.
For me, I think my husband does help out, but he admits that I put in more than him, but at the end of the day, if you think positively, he will appreciate your effort, Amabel gets your love and you will have a happy family. =)
It's a long article, but it's true!
Time for Bed
Mom and Dad were watching TV when Mom said, "I'm tired, and it's getting late. I think I'll go to bed."
She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's lunches, rinsed out the popcorn bowls, took meat out of the freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the table and started the coffee pot for brewing the next morning.
She then put some wet clothes into the dryer, put a load of clothes into the wash, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She picked up the newspapers strewn on the floor, picked up the game pieces left on the table and put the telephone book back into the drawer.
She watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to dry. She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom. She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to the teacher, counted out some cash for the field trip, and pulled a textbook out from hiding under the chair.
She signed a birthday card for a friend, addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the grocery store. She put both near her purse. Mom then creamed her face, put on moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth and trimmed her nails.
Hubby called, "I thought you were going to bed."
"I'm on my way," she said.
She put some water into the dog's dish and put the cat outside, then made sure the doors were locked. She looked in on each of the kids and turned out a bedside lamp, hung up a shirt, threw some dirty socks in the hamper, and had a brief conversation with the one up still doing homework. In her own room, she set the alarm, laid out clothing for the next day, straightened up the shoe rack.
She added three things to her list of things to do for tomorrow.
About that time, the hubby turned off the TV and announced to no one in particular, "I'm going to bed." And he did.
Thanks Smiley! Of cos i still remember you. How is your girl? ^_^
Thanks for the article. Hee!
She's a big girl now and we are very proud of her =)
And she's going to be a jie jie soon this coming March/ April Heehee... But to me, she's still very much like a baby to me loh..
Can tell you are a very devoted mum to Amabel, so when are you going to have Number 2?? =)