Shoo the girls to bed immediate after they have their teeth brushed after their last warm milk feed.

Get them to lie on the bed and stay quiet in the room themselves with the light off and be asleep. Should know, not very possible 😩 unless they are very tired. So most of the time will end up hearing them talking and making noise in the room. I will need to go into the bedroom a few times with cane, to check on them and stop them from talking and making noise again. The most one chances given, get caught again I will start slashing with cane. If again, then I will need to separate them to different room to sleep. For younger girl, Aisleyne, if she is sleeping alone, we will need to on the dim light for her so she won't get frighten being alone.


2 months back, I bought a proper double deck bed for them, Amabel is sleeping on the upper and Aisleyne on the lower. We spent 3hrs+ fixing everything but looking at how happy and excited they are with their new bed, that's all that we want.



They used to sleep together on a floor mattress in their own room. It's either me or hus will sleep with them which is by then they're also asleep. We will lay a mattress beside their bed.

One of us has to sleep with them in case in the middle of the night they need us, cause sometime they will wake up,
- to pee. For both, day time they are able to go toilet themselves w/o assist. For night, they need us to help to switch on the light for them.
- complaining hot
- cause feeling thirsty, wanting to drink water.

Some days, they will still sleep together with us in the master room


A bedtime rules and routine are really important for a kid. I just hope I have the ability to get everything done early and able to get them ready to bed even much earlier.

Tonight, Amabel is sleeping in the master room with Hus where Aisleyne with me in the girls' room.


I got to set alarm and get into bed now. Night~

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