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title: Be a better person
date: Sunday, September 16, 2012 time : 12:28 AM I didn't encounter more than a case where friend fall out with me. So if there is.. that's not my problem. I always think that "if only 1 person think that you have problem, maybe it's wrong. But if 9 out of 10 persons think you have problem, then that's definitely right about you". Ask yourself, how many friends you have met and slowly choose not to contact you and left you, then you'd work harder to be a better person. ...came across this writing which best describe how I felt being someone friend "You can’t expect someone to be a good friend if they are not a good person. The true friend will help you become a better person, so it follows that someone who is not a good person already can’t help you to become one yourself. Friendships involve a give and take. We both learn from our friends as well as teach them". Really thankful to all my bbfsss, we learn from one another, we accepted even bad comments without taking it to hard. You all are definitely the best and best in better person.  Labels: Friends 6 Comments:
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Super agree!!!! I hate feeling restricted to what I wanna post online becos some ppl are just too sensitive!! So annoying right!!
Hihi,
Are you the Kairis I know? ^^
Yah, it’s extremely annoying to deal with sensitive person. It is like an ongoing tug-of-war between their head and their heart. Usually, I’d withhold my true thoughts when I respond to such person too because I feel that they suffer extremely low self-esteem, insecurities and I don't want to make them feel worse. Sometime the post or comment we posted which really meant no malice at all or not meant for that particular person, but sensitive person may start feeling that I am personally attacking them in some way. They are making everything about themselves, Silly fool right! Then they will seem to be on the defensive, looking for hidden meanings behind words which don't exist. My question, is a person who reacts this way just overly sensitive, esteem-deficient, or is it possible that there is some more psychological problems present?
It is never pleasant to have to think about dropping a friend. Luckily only one that I encountered. But honestly, such person sounds more trouble than she/he is worth.
Hi pretty mommy,
That's what I thought too. Really a great post that worth reading, especially for those sensitive peoples. Extremely agreed with your above comment too. And yes, such person sounds more trouble than she/he is worth.
Yes I'm the kairis u know..hehe
Hi babe,
Well said!!! I can't agreed more. Usually this person who r over-sensitive & can't take thing easy r ugly at heart too & always thinking tat peoples r always against em in some ways, 心里不平衡 baa... . And they like to post things or words to insult & show their hates. Saw this type of people's before & realli shake my head, I will surely drop this type of friends & kip a distance away frm getting too close to em. U met one, but I believe u haf way lot more great friends ard that worth more of ur time. Hey, realli great seeing u blog more often now, have been reading ur blog for yrs but thought u havent been blogging often anymore. I shall come in more often now to check ur entry heeheee...
Thanks Shereen, for constantly coming in to read my posts. :D
Sound like someone and sorry to hear that you met such person. Let them be if they love to insult or use words to put others down to make themselves feel better. Eventually they are just showing people how bad they are. Don't you think so. :)