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 .jpg)  Our Lil Princess: Amabel Loh Birthday: 21 August 2006 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 38weeks 3days Weight at Birth: 3.005kg Length at Birth: 47cm Breastfeed: 14 months  Our 2nd Lil Princess: Aisleyne Loh Birthday: 15 August 2008 Place of Birth: Thomson Medical Centre, Singapore Delivery Method: Natural Delivery without Epidural Borned in Gestation age: 39weeks 2days Weight at Birth: 3.010kg Length at Birth: 48cm Breastfeed: 3 years+  |
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title: The news came too sudden.
date: Sunday, May 01, 2011 time : 2:41 AM The news came too sudden. my mil was a breast cancer patient, that's discovered 5 years back just few months before my elder girl was delivered. It was fully controlled after the operation with chemotherapy and radiotherapy, with regular visit to the hospital or blood test and checkup, it has been perfectly well for this 5 years. Just when we thought everything is ok now and with her regular visits to hospital, should be able to prevent further spread, who know she was diagnosed with 2 cancer cell on her brain last week. Symptom should have shown when she started feeling numbness and weakness of her left hand, early Jan this year. She thought that it wasn't a big deal, after sometimes may be fine, but it wasn't, only getting worsen as days go by.... that started to got her into worries. But she kept quiet or just told my Fil that it just a little weak and pain, nothing serious. Few days before she was sent to SGH, she already couldn't even raise and control her left hand. And yet refuse to go to hospital to do a thoroughly health check. She was afraid, she told me few days ago. She afraid that once she got in, she will never be out again. She afraid to stay in hospital. That's often what old people afraid of. It's heartwrenching to see mil in such a pain. :''( FIL said she's Yang's Heroine (楊門女將), she won the 1st battle and hope that she can stay strong and continue win this battle. FIL has been a great husband, taking good care of her wife, tendered her with so much love. He is strong, he knows he must be stronger than her so he can be her guiding angel He is the best husband I had ever see.. Not to say she has her children who loves her so much. 孝顺是一种难得的美。 Mil said she is blessed that we're all filial. So she'll be strong to fight against this brain cancer on her head. I feel so proud of her! I'll never forget the words my MIL said to me when she's on the wheelchair, still weak, entered into my afterbirth bedroom, that's almost 5 yrs back when she just diagnosed with breast cancer. She was being wheeled into my room and the moment she saw me, the first words she said is "依玲, 辛苦你了!" how not to say she's e best mil ! whenever think of it, how much she suffered, tears just couldn't stop rolling~ Can God please bless her to win this battle!? Sometime I wondering why must give birth to let the children came to this world to suffer in all the disaster and illness that exist. This make me sort of going to make up my mind, not to plan for more kids. I suddenly missed my parent so much and so Wednesday I went back home to see them with the kids. She was really happy as I just went up without telling her. They asked about my mil condition and really feel shock and sorry to hear this news. I still persuading them to go for Health screening with me. As known, I knew they are afraid to do any body checking. To the elderly, is better not to know whether they are with any illness than know. Cause it will affect them greatly. Still it is best to check, perhaps if discovers early, it still can be treatedPeoples say women tends to be the target one when come to illness, because women are more emotional and sensitive over little thing, always think too much and get really agitate over it. I feel so too... last time I often get agitated over things.. Now super 看开了. Cos really no point lah. Now just wanna be a happy woman. :) I love them and I don't want anyone to leave me. I don't want! :''( Ok enough of tearing I shall write happy thing.... here I share Shernice's 3rd Birthday Celebration on last weekend. wearing simple GS outfits  I still doesn't stop giggling when the mama told us that Shernice whining for a Superman Dora cake.  no wonder she looks a little grouchy. lol~         oh well, still get to snap one smiley photo of this beautiful princess  Playtime            How many of you really pray for a peaceful world everyday? I do! Please do so too! Labels: Happy Birthday, My Gallery 3 Comments:
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Hi, can i know which foundation and blusher are u using? Thanks=)
I switches my foundation everytime, I'm using Chanel Mat Lumiere foundation, covermark foundation or Elisacoy Gold Premium BB cream, Elisacoy Nudy BB cream or Liole BB cream. As for blusher is from Canmake powder blusher (come with a puff)
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Thanks alot for replying apple =)