Full of anger, I just couldn’t get myself to cool down.
He blamed me for not always standing beside and following after my girl result in her falling down sometimes. Weren’t kid falling down very normal? Not that I let her climb up high and down but just that she runs too fast and fell. How I know when she is going to fell right? How you expect a pregnant woman to faster stand up from a sitting position and faster run to save the kid from falling down. How you expect a pregnant woman to keep standing, carrying and running after the kid? I can do that, but if anything happened to the unborn baby. I am going to be blamed again? How can you restrict kid to do some things, which is part of their development milestone?


You dare to say she never fell down before, under your care? When she fell down, do I blame you? NO, I never said anything cause I know you never expect it and want it to. I care more in going to cuddle my girl and comfort her, telling her nevermind is just a minor fell. So she will learn the lesson that is her careless, playfulness resulted the fell. I believe he will said then you don’t let her run lor. Siao! it is part of their development, how can we restrict it? If you got the 本事, go employ another maid, 24/7 just following her. It is good to be protective, but too much is going to affect her development.
I have my way of discipline my kid, I attend courses on how to handle kids, I do research, I seek opinion from experience mums, professional children caregiver and PD. I know the best way to discipline, I know better than you and the elderly surely.
If you dare to provoke me again, you will sure get it. I will not make your life good. 我吃软不吃硬!

Too much to rant…

I’m not happy at all, except my girl can let me feel better and happy.
I miss her so much now.